10 LIFE LAWS

1: You either get it or you don’t.
Strategy: Become one of those who get it.
2: You create your own experience.
Strategy: Acknowledge and accept accountability for your life. Understand your role in creating results.
3: People do what works.
Strategy: Identify the payoffs that drive your behavior and that of others.
4: You cannot change what you do not acknowledge.
Strategy: Get real with yourself and others about life.
5: Life rewards action.
Strategy: Make careful decisions and then pull the trigger.
6: There is no reality, only perception.
Strategy: Identify the filters through which you view the world.
7: Life is managed; it is not cured.
Strategy: Learn to take charge of your life and hold on. This is a long ride, and you are the driver every single day.
8: We teach people how to treat us.
Strategy: Learn to renegotiate your relationships to have what you want.
9: There is power in forgiveness.
Strategy: Open your eyes to what anger and resentment are doing to you.
10: You have to name it before you can claim it.
Strategy: Get clear about what you want and take your turn.

— Dr Phil McGraw